I am now 21 weeks and can feel baby Caroline move everyday. It is such a strange feeling. I almost feel bad or that I am a bad surrogate in some way. I feel her move and I feel nothing emotionally. With my own when ever they would move I would talk to them, with her I want to but at the same time I do not have that connection. I guess that is a good thing but at the same time it is just sooo weird to me. I feel a lot better lately, lazy but better. I have NO IDEA how I will decorate or go shopping for Christmas. I have to pull out all the decoration so I can get the show on the road and then I will start Christmas shopping in December, I know better late than never though right??LOL I have been bugging my DH to get his freaking chair out of the living room so I can get the tree out but he has yet to do it, ugh! Men what can I do. So I have been thinking about what to get the guys for Christmas and I still have NO CLUE. I want to get them a daddy statue of some sot but have not found the right one yet.. I hope I find it soon...